Monday, February 20, 2006

An email circulating poem...

Sometimes you get to read special things that are circulated through email.  My sister sent me this one and I am pleased to share this fine lady's poem!  May we all remember and learn from it!

When an old lady died in the geriatric ward of a small hospital it was believed  that she had nothing left of any value. Later, when the nurses were going through her meager possessions, they found this poem.  Its quality and content so impressed  the staff that copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital.

The old Scottish lady, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author
of this "anonymous"  poem winging across the Internet:

Crabby Old Woman

What do you see, nurses?

What do you see?

What are you thinking

When you're looking at me?

A crabby old woman,

Not very wise,

Uncertain of habit,

With faraway eyes?

Who dribbles her food

And makes no reply

When you say in a loud voice,

"I do wish you'd try!"

Who seems not to notice

The things that you do,

And forever is losing

A stocking or shoe?

Who, resisting or not,

Lets you do as you will,

With bathing and feeding,

The long day to fill?

Is that what you're thinking?

Is that what you see?

Then open your eyes, nurse,

You're not looking at me.

I'll tell you who I am

As I sit here so still,

As I do at your bidding,

As I eat at your will.

I'm a small child of ten

With a father and mother,

Brothers and sisters,

Who love one another.

A young girl of sixteen

With wings on her feet

Dreaming that soon now

A lover she'll meet.

A bride soon at twenty,

My heart gives a leap,

Remembering the vows

That I promised to keep.

At twenty-five now,

I have young of my own,

Who need me to guide

And a secure happy home.

A woman of thirty,

My young now grown fast,

Bound to each other

With ties that should last.

At forty, my young sons

Have grown and are gone,

But my man's beside me

To see I don't mourn.

At fifty once more,

Babies play round my knee,

Again we know children,

My loved one and me.

Dark days are upon me,

My husband is dead,

I look at the future,

I shudder with dread.

For my young are all rearing

Young of their own,

And I think of the years

And the love that I've known.

I'm no w an old woman

And nature is cruel;

'Tis jest to make old age

Look like a fool.

The body, it crumbles,

Grace and vigor depart,

There is now a stone

Where I once had a heart.

But inside this old carcass

A young girl still dwells,

And now and again,

My battered heart swells.

I remember the joys,

I remember the pain,

And I'm loving and living

Life over again.

I think of the years

All too few, gone too fast,

And accept the stark fact

That nothing can last.

So open your eyes, people,

Open and see,

Not a crabby old woman;

Look closer . . see ME!!

Remember this poem when you next meet an old person who you might brush
aside without looking at the young soul within . ..   we will all, one day,
be there, too!


  1. thank the powers that be for all truths in that wonderful poem. March 7 sends me over a hill that chants 87, 87 years. I brush it aside for my spirit is always a fourteen year old,  and I dream of days with mother and dad, the sisters who left, not too long ago. the friends who left me come back in my dreams, and great great grand kids may remember me when I am gone. Until I am much older, I will write of my dreams.

  2. If I have this lovely young lady's email name right...I think I'm about to review one of her be on the lookout for it!