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Saturday, September 7, 2013

Richard North Patterson's Loss of Innocence Coming in October New Sensitive, Emotional Drama...


Gracie Mansion, Rev. Martin Luther King press ...
Gracie Mansion, Rev. Martin Luther King press conference / World Telegram & Sun photo by Dick DeMarsico. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
"The crowd hadn't heard. When someone handed him a speech he'd scribbled down, Bobby waved it away. Then he got out of the car and climbed on the back of a flatbed truck. It was dark--only the floodlights turned on Bobby, surrounded by a crowd of black people who didn't know what had happened.
"I have sad news for you," he started out. Martin Luther King was shot and killed tonight...
"For a moment, Ben half closed his eyes. "There were screams and wailing--this sound of raw pain. Then Bobby said, 'Martin Luther King dedicated his life to love and justice between his fellow human beings, and he died in the cause of that effort.'
"The crowd went silent. 'For those of you who are black,' he went on, 'you can be filled with bitterness, with hatred, and a desire for revenge. Or we can make an effort, as Martin Luther King did, to love and understanding.' Pausing, Ben shook his head in wonder. "Then he quoted Aeschylus, of all people. 'Even in our sleep, pain that cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart. Until in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom through the awful grade of God.'
"The crowd was completely hushed. For a minute Bobby was quiet, too, then sort of willed himself to finish. 'So I ask you to return home, to say a prayer for the family of Martin Luther King, but also for our country, a prayer for understanding and compassion. Let us dedicate ourselves to what the Greeks wrote so many years ago: to tame the savageness of man, and make gentle the life of this world.'"
"What struck Whitney first was how well Ben remembered the words, as though he had read them many times since Kennedy's death. To her astonishment, tears glistened in his eyes, and for a moment she thought of Peter telling her about his father. "There were riots all over America," Ben finished. "But not in Indianapolis." Then he added in a throwaway voice, "Anyhow, it's all gone now..."

~~~

Loss of Innocence
By Richard North Patterson



I was pleasantly surprised reading Patterson's novel due out next month. In his afterwords, he commented, "It's not easy for a sixty-four-year-old man to create a twenty-two-year-old woman as she emerges into adulthood over four decades ago, or to reconstruct the experiences and perceptions of a graduate of a private women's college of that time..." He then goes on to thank those that helped him with this... I must give Kudos to him--it's not easy to express the feelings and thoughts of women but he has done it. This book is dedicated to Vicky Kennedy and Phyllis Segal and in memory of friends Ted Kennedy and Eli Segal. I am sure this novel will speak to both Mrs. Kennedy and Mrs. Segal and the memories of both of their husbands.

In my opinion, this author has done an outstanding job, so much so, that as I read it, it came to mind often that the narrator sounded just like she, Whitney Dane, was writing her own story. Having read this author before and enjoyed his thrillers, this was quite  different--dare I say, more of a women's novel...  I wish I had realized that Patterson's last novel, Fall From Grace, was Ben Blaine's story, while this novel is the woman he fell in love with one summer...Perhaps I will go back and read it, but maybe not because this book almost speaks for how he got to be the man he later became..
This book is about my time period: Martin Luther King and then Bobby Kennedy had been killed. The Vietnam War was something that nobody wanted us to be involved with, but none really had taken action to get us out of it! War--something I'll never understand...

Ben Blaine had dropped out of Yale to work/travel with Bobby Kennedy and had been there when he was killed. He had also been with him when Martin Luther King had also died and Ben remembered exactly what Bobby had done that night after he had found out. He threw away his prepared speech and had just talked to the crowd about his personal feelings of King and how he knew they all felt.

Now Ben had come home, not knowing the direction he would have to take in the future. For now, he was house sitting in his hometown. There he met Whitney Dane.

Whitney is really the main character, but Ben came to be very influential in her life and helped her to make some of the hard decisions she finally made.

Whitney was still in college when she met Peter and fallen in love. Whitney came from a wealthy family, who came to Martha's Vineyard during the summer months. Ben, on the other hand, lived there all year round and came from an abusive family--at least his father was until Ben got big enough and turned the tables on him... The difference in "society" was real, but the two, individually, were very much interested in the same things...

Whitney became engaged to Peter, after having her father "bless" the couple. Thereafter, it seemed as if her  parents took over everything. Her father arranged a job for Peter, got him into the Reserves so that he wouldn't have to go to Vietnam, and got them their first apartment. In the meantime, her mother was making all arrangements, or nearly all, for her wedding.

It wasn't anything that Whitney had not expected. Normally, because she loved her parents, she would go along with their planning. But going into college and becoming more familiar with the outside world had allowed questions of right and wrong to enter into Whitney's life. She, for instance, found Bobby Kennedy would be her choice--except that her father was a Nixon man and even hoped to get a post of some sort if he were elected. When she came home for the summer and then met Ben, she learned more about the personal side of Bobby. He was gone by then, but all that had happened made her even more aware of the differences in her opinions from those of her family...

"They've shot Bobby Kennedy."
"Her father blinked, then realized why she had come. "I'll sit up with you," he said...
Senator Kennedy has been rushed to the hospital...
"Sudden tears ran down Whitney's face. "This is what I feared," her father said in a somber voice. "The Kennedys unleash the furies."
"No, Whitney wanted to say. In her unreason, she knew that believing Bobby Kennedy stirred dark and unknown forces was tantamount to wishing for his death. But she could not give voice to the fever in her brain, not to the man who had come to console her.
"His face unspeakably sad, Bobby's press secretary appeared to announce that Robert Kennedy was in surgery. Beside her, Charles sagged heavily into the couch. "He can't survive this, Whitney. At least not as he was."
"Still he stayed with her. Only when first light grazed the window did he say gently, "There's nothing we can do sweetheart. You should get some rest."
"I can't."
"Charles stood, kissing her forehead. Still gazing at the screen, she heard his footsteps on the stairs.
"Alone, Whitney kept a vigil for Robert Kennedy..."
~~~

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"Anne gave her youngest
daughter a look that mingled
reproof and concern. 'When I
praise your sister, Whitney, that
doesn't mean I prefer her. It's
simply that you have different
qualities, as any siblings do.
You should concentrate on your
own life--your wedding, your
marriage, the family you'll soon
be starting. Let your father and
me worry about Janine..."
~~~
But these issues facing the world only loaded Whitney down even further than she had been. There had always been the issue of her older sister and her mother. At the engagement dinner, Whitney had started noticing her sister's actions and how she was looking. She tried to bring it up with her mother that night and at other times, but her mother wouldn't listen. She had always seemed to be living part of her life through Janine, both beautiful, both having men fall over themselves around them. But it seemed that Janine was drinking more and Whitney had seen her one night when she had returned home--more than she'd ever wanted to witness! And they seemed to not be able to communicate anymore. Whitney missed and loved her sister, but nobody seemed to want to listen to her.

What happens when at 22, you realize that you are an individual that is no
longer the same loving daughter, living with her family, abiding by the rules
established for her home life? Ben was a new friend with many thoughts and ideas different from what she'd always known. For one, he had hopes
of becoming a writer, just as Whitney had--with nobody from her family
willing to support and share that hope with her. But Ben was just the catalyst.

When everything tumbled down all around, Whitney found herself alone,
facing an unknown future... In many ways, I empathized with Whitney but fortunately never had to make those decisions to totally change my life. Could you? Would you? If you only had yourself to depend on, could you toughen up and move on? If you're a young woman between the ages of 18, say, and 80...you might find that this story will mean just as much to you as it did to me. The book begins and ends with Whitney as a much older woman. I've been looking back for quite a number of years now. Have you stopped to look at your life? This book just might be of great assistance to help you do just that.

Tears? Yes! Sorrow? Yes? Regret? Yes! But there is also forgiveness, love, and personal growth...I consider this a must-read and congratulate Richard North Patterson on taking a different path in his writing to acknowledge and remember his friends. It's a fantastic contribution to many of his female readers as well!


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Richard North Patterson graduated in 1968 from Ohio Wesleyan University and has been awarded their Distinguished Achievement Citation. He is a 1971 graduate of the Case Western Reserve University's School of Law, and a recipient of their President's Award for Distinguished Alumni. He has served as an assistant attorney general for the state of Ohio; a trial attorney for the Securities and Exchange Commission in Washington, D.C., and San Francisco; and was the SEC's liaison to the Watergate special prosecutor. More recently, Patterson was a partner in the San Francisco office of McCutchen, Doyle, Brown & Enersen, now Bingham-McCutchen.

In 1993, he retired from the practice of law to devote himself to writing. He has served on the boards of his undergraduate and law schools, the National Partnership for Women and Families, the Family Violence Prevention Fund, PEN Center West, and the Brady Campaign to Prevent Gun Violence, and was chairman of Common Cause, the grassroots citizens' lobby founded by John Gardner.

Patterson studied fiction writing with Jesse Hill Ford at the University of Alabama at Birmingham; his first short story was published in The Atlantic Monthly and his first novel, The Lasko Tangent, won an Edgar Allen Poe Award in 1979. Between 1981 and 1985, he published The Outside Man, Escape the Night, and Private Screening. His first novel in eight years,Degree of Guilt (1993), and his Eyes of a Child (1995) were combined into a miniseries by NBC TV. Both were international bestsellers, and Degree of Guilt was awarded the French Grand Prix de Litterature Policiere in 1995. Caroline Masters(originally published as The Final Judgment, 1995), Silent Witness (1997), No Safe Place (1998), and Dark Lady (1999) all became immediate international bestsellers. Protect and Defend (2000), about the controversial nomination of the first woman to be chief justice and her entanglement in an incendiary lawsuit regarding late-term abortion and parental consent, became Patterson's seventh consecutive international bestseller and received a Maggie Award from Planned Parenthood for its treatment of issues regarding reproductive rights.

Balance of Power confronted one of America's most divisive political and social issues—gun violence—and was chosen byUSA Today as its book-of-the-month selection for November 2003. Conviction (2005) focused on the law and politics of capital punishment. Exile (2007) dealt with the Israeli-Palestinian conflict and was nominated for South Africa's leading literary award. The Race (2007) concerned a dramatic campaign for president and was Patterson's eleventh consecutive New York Times bestseller. Eclipse (2009) deals with human rights, Africa, and the geopolitics of oil. The Spire, is a psychological suspense novel that deals with race relations on a college campus. In the Name of Honor is about the high cost of war and secrets. The Devil's Light is about an Al Quada nuclear plot and the CIA officer racing to prevent the destruction of a major Western city. In his latest, Fall From Grace the mysterious, violent death of a prominent New England patriarch exposes a nest of dark family secrets.

Patterson has appeared on such shows as Today, Good Morning America, The CBS Morning Show, Inside Politics, Washington Journal, Buchanan and Press, Greta Van Susteren, and Hardball. His articles on politics, literature, and law have been published in the London Times, The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, The Washington Post, the Los Angeles Times, The Boston Globe, the San Francisco Chronicle, and the San Jose Mercury News. A frequent speaker on political, legal, and social issues, in 2004 Patterson spoke at Washington, D.C., rallies in support of reproductive rights and against gun violence. His papers are collected by Boston University.

Patterson lives in Martha's Vineyard, San Francisco, and Cabo San Lucas with his wife, Dr. Nancy Clair.

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Thursday, August 16, 2012

Meet Gideon Gold--Damron's Wonderful Character in First Novel!




Very Narrow Bridge    

By Hillel F. Damron


As is often the case, after I had met Gideon Gold in Unidentified Woman, I had to read his introduction in Damron's first in series novel Very Narrow Bridge!  What a unique novel! If possible, there is even more deep, thought-provoking tension in this complex drama of a family extended through adoption, marriage and the intervention of war...

Gideon Gold takes a direct, driven course in his first case, which turns out to expand into four different missing persons cases (two to find Joy!). Truly an unbelievable story, but one that resonates as a plausible outcome of today's world.

Gideon is semi-separated and taking care of his son while his wife is heavily involved in a presidential campaign. As always, Gideon is in need of money, since he has not yet made it as a screenwriter. So when a woman calls, asking for Mr. Gold, he realizes it's a mistake, but it is also a potential way to make money. Although he doesn't work for the Gold Investigations that was being called, he does identify himself as Mr. Gold--and decides to agree that he is a private investigator... As it turns out, he seems to have a knack for it, even if he does tend to get personally involved with at least one client...

So, he had just been hired to find this woman's daughter--a teenage runaway that had been gone for about a year, but was needed because her father was very ill...
What she neglected to tell Gideon was that their daughter, Joy, had been adopted...

And hates her stepfather...

Finding life better on her own, on the streets...

Joy is a joy to get to know. She's strong, intelligent and athletic, with a body that does more harm than good, except that she had learned what men want and was willing to meet them there, but on her terms. Reading about Gideon's introduction into her world will help you to know the type of man he is, as he stumbles, first, but then adapts to asking the right questions of the street people and finally finding Joy dancing, in a nude bar. There we meet the talented teenager who has a routine established, caring not whether she got any tips for displaying her beautiful body. Let's just say that Gideon was not unmoved by her. But he takes it very easy and finally convinces her to talk to him.

And Joy made contact with her mother...

But then almost immediately hired Gideon to find her "real" mother... Which he does, but she decides not to take his advice about contacting her, and arrives at her house at dinner time, and walks in to meet her mother's husband and two sons... NOT a happy reunion, since her mother had never told her husband about the baby she had given up! But Ursula did want to meet her girl and was very interested in having her live with them, until her husband put the pressure on, while Joy had taken off for a few days...

Joy's mother told her that her real father was dead...so she takes the trip to Washington to find his name on the wall for Vietnam Veterans...but it wasn't there... And the fourth missing person case came to Gideon's attention...

I found it interesting that the book blurb, to me, gives the climax to the story away...am not sure why... But I must tell you that the entire book is, in my opinion, one of the best stories that illustrates how family relationships can and will affect the rest of your lives. Joy was lost within the demands of her family before she was even born--and when her adopted parents gave her the life they did, she chose to leave and live on the streets. In my opinion, Gideon Gold represents perhaps that one person who finally enters a street kid's life and, being able to gain the trust of that child, helps to reclaim that life.

The ending wasn't surprising to me. In fact, Hillel Damron chose the hard way--he didn't provide us with the happy ending that we all want. Gold somehow makes us privy to all the details, but we get so involved with the overall story, that we don't necessarily see the conclusion he knew had to come... Damron faces family relationships, and places readers in the position of seeing the thoughts of envy, desire, need and jealousy but also love--all those feelings we often hide inside except when they erupt and there are no holds barred--and murder happens...

If you walk a Very Narrow Bridge, you just might be pushed off... I salute Hillel Damron in his willingness to merge intimacy within a murder mystery in such a poignant manner. I certainly hope that Damron will bring Gideon Gold back into my life soon. He's a special character that simply must not go away... Highly recommended!


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Hillel F. Damron is the winner of Moment Magazine 2011 Memoir Contest Prize. He was born in a kibbutz in Israel to parents who survived the Holocaust. He was an officer in an elite paratroops unit, experienced war and was wounded in battle. He studied filmmaking at the "London Film School," directed TV documentaries, video shorts and a feature film. He wrote film reviews, published short stories - one received a "Fantasia 2000 Magazine" award - and a sci-fi novel: "The War of the Sexes," referred to by the American "Science-Fiction Studies" as "the best of all Israeli sci-fi literature." His short story, "The Messiah" - an excerpt from "Very Narrow Bridge" - was published in "Sambatyon," a literary journal in Northern California.
To learn more about him and his work, visit his literary website: http://hillelbridge.com/




A note from BRH...when I was looking for a picture, I found that there was a song by the same title. I have no idea whether the author had used it as background to this novel. But I loved the song! I hope it adds to your enjoyment and thoughts about the title...and not be afraid at all... Thanks for listening!

Here are the words in English:

The Whole World
is a Narrow Bridge

The whole world
is a very narrow bridge
a very narrow bridge
a very narrow bridge 

The whole world
is a very narrow bridge - 
A very narrow bridge.

And the main thing to recall - 
is not to be afraid - 
not to be afraid at all.

And the main thing to recall - 
is not to be afraid at all.
http://www.hebrewsongs.com/song-kolhaolamkulo.htm 
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Friday, March 4, 2011

Review: Author Highlights Safe Haven Law in Latest Novel!

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These Things Hidden


By  Heather Gudenkauf












OMG, what a story! Heather Gudenkauf takes on the controversial issue of  Safe Havens for newborn babies, where a new parent or other interested individuals may leave a new baby when these individuals cannot keep the child. When readers consider These Things Hidden as an illustrative example, I believe that there will be no choice as to whether to support the law.

Three young girls, from two different families become involved in the secretive birth of baby twins.

No matter whether it is right or not, the very first thing I wondered about was the home life of the involved girls. One set of parents were extremely proud of their daughter, until she made a mistake. At that point they essentially disowned her.

These Things HiddenAnother parent had continuously brought new "fathers" into her home, even ignoring that sometimes it was her daughter that they were interested in...

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Thursday, February 17, 2011

Review: Nance's Debut Novel Shares Heartwarming Family Drama!

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Nance Shares a Contemporary Little House-like Story




Life Goes On


By Linda Nance




Suspense, intrigue and family highlights Linda Nance’s debut novel as a contemporary ‘Little House on the Prairie’ novel of love, devotion, and inspiration. I was so pleased to meet Linda at my Facebook Reader's Roundup group and learn of her books. But I was honored to know her as an author when I had the chance to read her first novel, Life Goes On.


John and Becky were caught in a financial situation that was one they could not handle themselves. John knew he would not find another job in the city and that he had to do something dramatic--his answer was to turn to a relative--Uncle James, who lived in Arkansas. Becky was shocked to consider not only leaving the city, but to move to the country, and in Arkansas! John explained that he had already talked to Uncle James who had suggested he might find work at a local factory.

Just when Becky was beginning to consider the idea, Donna, Bobby and Stacy came home from school. Neither John nor Becky were surprised at their responses. But this time, John had planned ahead--he had already made the necessary decisions and the family were soon on their way! John knew he had not fully provided the guidance of a father to his family, but now with Uncle James' help, he was firm that he was going to make up for the past.



Soon everybody was adjusting, but the children felt they had been given no choice. Donna called her boyfriend often, Bobby soon was finding that he could find like-minded peers here as well as in the city--those that drank and did drugs. But what they now had was a father who had made up his mind to be more firm and an Uncle who was quite willing to help! They soon had Bobby working with them--at least when he didn't sneak off...

Becky had taken a job at a motel and soon began to see that there were just as many problems with co-workers and strange, potentially dangerous activities there as they had been worried about in the city. But when they discovered that Bobby could very well be right in the middle, the family had to pull together even closer. Even then, death reached out to Bobby and Uncle James who was there to save him!   


Nance has the heartwarming storytelling skills of the creator of The Little House on the Prairie, sharing family love, fortitude, and forgiveness, but adds a contemporary setting where it is no longer safe to have children out with friends where drinking, drugs and sex reach them. Life Goes On reaches out to parents in today's world and shares that hope that still is available when family love is strong and caring. Highly recommended for parents as well as young teenagers who just "don't get their parents!" Linda speaks for many of us who hold on to family values as the way to meet the future! 

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Sunday, October 24, 2010

Review: Daughter Shares Memoir of A Broken Family

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"Channa will evade Nazi soldiers and survive WWII by the age of 12"
Broken Birds:

The Story of My Momila

By Jeannette Katzir




In many ways Broken Birds is a sad, but wonderfully detailed historical documentary of some of those events that took place during World War II and, in particular, what we know as The Holocaust. It is the story of a young girl and boy who narrowly escaped death and who later married. Each story is presented separately. Channa Poltzer is Momila; Nathan her husband. Jeannette Katzir, on of their daughters is the author. But it is a story of family--a family that, today, right now, continues to be affected in small and large ways by what happened so many years ago.

Or is it?

For those of us who are children of that war, there are many who can share familial "results" from their parents living during the war. How much more, then, can the effect of those who were actually there during that war be upon the children of those children?
Broken Birds, The Story of My Momila

When I was young and, for some reason, asked about our heritage (German on both sides), I can remember that my mother would respond in only one way--we are Americans.

And when Jeannette, her Father, and other siblings traveled to Germany, they often heard from those who lived there that the places they were asking directions to--for instance, the death camp--did not exist.

It is Shame that brings those answers...shame at what was done to men, women and children there in those camps... Readers cannot help but feel this shame, once again, as Katzir shares the story of her parents. Both children bravely faced what they had to do and, in the end, escaped to a better life. Praise God for that.

At the same time, Katzar's family story, of broken birds, may very well be illustrative to the families of many in America, who are members of dysfunctional families. I say this not to detract from the hardships and very real and open account of Katzir's memoir, but to strengthen its universality to the larger American families who have been affected by their past. Unfortunately, by revealing the jealousy, greed, and selfishness in such detail that occurred upon the death of Channa, the drama among the remaining family to a great extent overpowers the parents' story.
 
Were the actions taken by the children of the Poltzer family due to the lives of their parents? Or are they typical of children in America who are greedy and the desire for money and an easy life is expected rather than earned? Mainly my reaction was that the two stories should never have been merged. I respect greatly what was researched and documented for Channa and Nathan. However, in my opinion, Sibling rivalry that requires money to reflect parents' love is not a new story.

Perhaps Honor Thy Mother and Father was the story I was expecting for those who made it through the Holocaust... Still, there is much to read in Broken Birds. Channa and Nathan's stories are indeed worth reading. And if you wish to find a book opening discussing what happens in families about money, upon the deaths of other family members, well, I have many stories of my own and other families I have known and didn't really find much different to offer here. I wish I could say that this was a memorable book. It was not. Please read other reviews on this book so that you may decide for yourself. Perhaps the sibing rivalry many of us have faced was too dominant for this reviewer.

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