Demanding vs. Demonstrating
Erosion of Trust
Respect Through Service.
A Civic Reminder:
I was immediately thrown back to the last years of working for the University where I had been employed for 37 years.
These words I spoke, not exactly, but in emotional content, I said to my boss at that time, immediately after I have returned from a medical leave, which had been presented to me by my medical doctor--Either leave your job or die, or words to that effect. That day, I left his office and walked off the job, went to the Office of Personnel and sought a medical leave. It was immediately granted. I could proceed to write more, some of which I already have posted, but this is shared to confirm and support all that Michael Smith has talked about today.
When I was released by both medical and psychological doctors to return to work, I was not placed in my former position. You could possibly think it was because of retribution by a new boss who had been caught in a crisis situation, I imagine, and had to handle things in my absence. I was Acting Director of my office at that time... In just one situation that we must watch happening by the U.S. president during the last few months, I was chosen to ensure I would not be able to continue employment. It apparently was happening during my leave as well as when I returned when I was given a special project rather than returning to my position.
It might be relevant for readers at this point, to know that when I started in my first job, I was hired at one of the lowest level clerical positions in that office. Based upon my performance, I was referred for a position with the Provost--the second leader who reported to the University President. Later, when he chose to return to just his Director of Librarians position, I was gratified that he offered me a job in the Library, but that I also received a request to begin working with the Provost for Instruction...which I accrpted. Thereafter, when a new office was created for Facilities and Utilization, I was asked if I was interested... and continued to move upward as that new office expanded, until I was Acting Director of that office which was now called Facilities Planning and Management... Many organization and personnel changes occurred during those years, without any problems until a new level of Assistant VP position was added... That position had been vacated and the director of housing was promoted into the Assistant VP position. That new supervisor, never spent one minute with me at any time I continued as Acting Director. However, when I returned from the Medical Leave, apparently Personnel got involved and asked why I wasn't returned to my position when I had been cleared to return to work...
For the first time since I'd been back, my supervisor came to my office and explained that I needed to sign a form for Personnel. I read it and refused to sign it. That form stated that I had agreed to a demotion, or something to that effect. He looked at me in shock and said, "you won't sign it?"
I said "No, it was you that decided that I would be put on this project." He fumbled and fumed and said, "Well I had a right to in my position..." I looked at him and said, "You may think you had a right to, and that might be true, but you don't have a right to my respect. Respect must be earned..." He walked out...
I think it is very important with a tyrant like the present president using the power of his position to disregard all established policies and procedures, and has been approved for some by the partisan Supreme Court, that we all remember that this man is no different than the man who chose to remove me from my position without authorization, without any type of discussion, and without approval by known policies and procedures...
Every single person everywhere has a right to be respected as the individual that they are as of the time you may meet them... It is what Jesus required of us... Though he used the word Love... which, as you know, is the overall guidance word for all that Smith showed us in his collage of words above... ALL of those words are guaranteed to us under the Constitution. Please do not ever think that, even the President, has a right to treat you as we, the citizens of America, have been treated since Day 1 of this administration. It is illegal, but, more, it means that no man can treat us as being better than any other person on God's Earth!
Thank you Michael A. Smith for presenting the many words of importance that each one of us must be sure that we use, expect, and, sometimes, demand, as I did when I was treated illegally under the policies and procedures of the University... By the way, I did file a legal suit, or rather, I had a lawyer attend a first meeting when I filed against the University to the Board of Regents... When she had sat through that meeting and we talked later, she was honest... "You have been taken advantage of too often and your workload has increased substantially, but the documentation you have would require so many hours for me to represent you, that you would not be able to afford it..." I chose to immediately file for retirement since I had sufficient years in employment in and walked out as soon as I knew that the University would not support the normal actions that were clearly written in policy... Never think you are alone, though... Help can be found, as long as you know what it is that you want to fight for... I chose not to fight because the administration then in office were similar, although not as bad, as it is in now in Washington. I immediately started working for a small publisher and then on to professional book reviews... As I look back, I'm glad I both stood up for myself and then chose to leave it all behind rather than to fight for something that I felt would not be worth it... We all have the right to make those decisions if we have acted in accordance with documented policies and procedures! You have the right to stand firm in integrity, leading others to know it is possible for them as well!
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